Comments for Aimlessly Wandering, Without Destination http://complicated1.wordpress.com Mediocrity is my middle name. Sat, 05 Dec 2009 13:51:12 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Things for which I am thankful, in no particular order. by Molly http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/11/14/things-for-which-i-am-thankful-in-no-particular-order/#comment-6525 Molly Sat, 05 Dec 2009 13:51:12 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/11/14/things-for-which-i-am-thankful-in-no-particular-order/#comment-6525 The veterans health care is so wonderful, I just wishwishwish they included wives. I'm thankful you updated with your busy schedule. The veterans health care is so wonderful, I just wishwishwish they included wives.
I’m thankful you updated with your busy schedule.

]]> Comment on And finally, the pepper spray story. by Molly http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/08/01/and-finally-the-pepper-spray-story/#comment-6522 Molly Fri, 07 Aug 2009 22:29:31 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/?p=238#comment-6522 Crazy bitch. I hope she really is destined to do community service and H is divorcing her. Oh the DRAMA of it all. Stupid + liquor = Stupid squared. I hope the neighborhood is back to Lime Fest 2009, sans Pepper Spray Bitch. Crazy bitch. I hope she really is destined to do community service and H is divorcing her.
Oh the DRAMA of it all. Stupid + liquor = Stupid squared.
I hope the neighborhood is back to Lime Fest 2009, sans Pepper Spray Bitch.

]]> Comment on My Crazy Neighbor (2) by Molly http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/my-crazy-neighbor-2/#comment-6520 Molly Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:13:14 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/my-crazy-neighbor-2/#comment-6520 It's ok. I keep checking in. Eventually you find time. No pressure. Interesting new look. I like it. It’s ok. I keep checking in. Eventually you find time. No pressure.
Interesting new look. I like it.

]]> Comment on In keeping with the running… by anastasia http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/15/in-keeping-with-the-running/#comment-6519 anastasia Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:19:30 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/15/in-keeping-with-the-running/#comment-6519 Oh, and teh child gets an allowance. Most goes into the bank, but she keeps some at home... Oh, and teh child gets an allowance. Most goes into the bank, but she keeps some at home…

]]> Comment on In keeping with the running… by anastasia http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/15/in-keeping-with-the-running/#comment-6518 anastasia Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:19:07 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/15/in-keeping-with-the-running/#comment-6518 Hey, she paid her back. Coincidentally, it was her mother's birthday. So she bought her a tanning package. Ugh. Hey, she paid her back. Coincidentally, it was her mother’s birthday. So she bought her a tanning package. Ugh.

]]> Comment on In keeping with the running… by Molly http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/15/in-keeping-with-the-running/#comment-6515 Molly Mon, 15 Jun 2009 21:37:41 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/15/in-keeping-with-the-running/#comment-6515 jesus, how embarrassing. I'm thinking rather lame, and how come a 14 year old has 40 bucks to lend. jesus, how embarrassing. I’m thinking rather lame, and how come a 14 year old has 40 bucks to lend.

]]> Comment on My crazy neighbor by Molly http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/my-crazy-neighbor/#comment-6513 Molly Wed, 10 Jun 2009 13:53:45 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/my-crazy-neighbor/#comment-6513 Is it later enough yet? Sounds like the cops should be called. Is it later enough yet? Sounds like the cops should be called.

]]> Comment on July 2012 by anastasia http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/05/july-2012/#comment-6512 anastasia Sat, 06 Jun 2009 21:16:20 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/?p=230#comment-6512 Thank you so much Molly. I know I will get through this, and I know, at least I hope, that someday she will appreciate what I did for her. And then I will have a friend. It's just hard right now, and I AM selfish, and writing about it helps. Especially when I get advice from someone like you. Thank you so much Molly. I know I will get through this, and I know, at least I hope, that someday she will appreciate what I did for her. And then I will have a friend. It’s just hard right now, and I AM selfish, and writing about it helps. Especially when I get advice from someone like you.

]]> Comment on July 2012 by Molly http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/06/05/july-2012/#comment-6511 Molly Sat, 06 Jun 2009 13:14:00 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/?p=230#comment-6511 I raised a step-son. I felt everything you feel. Everything. The fact that he was so much better off with us than his selfish mother did not outweigh my feelings of resentment that he was never in the equation of our marriage to start with. He definitely needed us. I didn't need him. Time moves forward. He left, married someone I could be friends with, and I now have a man I can depend on if ever there is trouble. It's so hard. It's harder than raising your own kid. She came with much baggage that isn't your fault. It will end, the hard part, and you just have to keep it together for yourself. I hope you end up with someone you can be friends with. I raised a step-son. I felt everything you feel. Everything. The fact that he was so much better off with us than his selfish mother did not outweigh my feelings of resentment that he was never in the equation of our marriage to start with. He definitely needed us. I didn’t need him.

Time moves forward. He left, married someone I could be friends with, and I now have a man I can depend on if ever there is trouble.

It’s so hard. It’s harder than raising your own kid. She came with much baggage that isn’t your fault. It will end, the hard part, and you just have to keep it together for yourself. I hope you end up with someone you can be friends with.

]]> Comment on As the shit hits the fan. Or, a look at the life of a second-wife. by anastasia http://complicated1.wordpress.com/2009/05/14/as-the-shit-hits-the-fan-or-a-look-at-the-life-of-a-second-wife/#comment-6509 anastasia Mon, 01 Jun 2009 14:42:48 +0000 http://complicated1.wordpress.com/?p=227#comment-6509 We are pretty much back to normal now. Her dad just ungrounded her this weekend, so we are just trying to give her chances to win back trust. Oy. We are pretty much back to normal now. Her dad just ungrounded her this weekend, so we are just trying to give her chances to win back trust. Oy.

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